How do you bring up the glove fetish?
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I picked the second option, but it varies. In the case of my latest fling, I waited to put the gloves on until our second or third time together. I appeared in the room in my underwear with long black leather gloves. She kinda laughed a little but once we started going I just didn't take them off and nothing was said. She thought I was just in a kinky mood or something. I wore them again another time and that's when she asked "You really like wearing gloves don't you?" At that point I confessed my glove fetish and she laughed again. I asked her if she would wear gloves and she said okay. I gave her a pair of semi-long leather gloves and she seemed to enjoy wearing them.
Other times, I've just not mentioned it at all, and again I can enjoy sex without gloves. But bringing the gloves out does add some spark to the sack.
Who the fuck picked "I don't have a glove fetish"? LOL!!!
Other times, I've just not mentioned it at all, and again I can enjoy sex without gloves. But bringing the gloves out does add some spark to the sack.
Who the fuck picked "I don't have a glove fetish"? LOL!!!
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
Ahahaha, I was just asking myself about that one!!! Maybe a Google Bot?Who the fuck picked "I don't have a glove fetish"? LOL!!!
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Hahaa! That would actually make sense!TheGlovemaniac wrote:Maybe a Google Bot?
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Haha! Seriously? So the mystery is finally solved!glovesnboots wrote:It was me being a smartass :P
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Alright I admitted it, it was me! When I mouse over now, it tells me I voted for that option! It was a joke thought, I have a glove fetish since little like around 5 years old
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Aaaand the mystery is back.
Who's telling the truth? We'll never know.
Who's telling the truth? We'll never know.
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I swear I clicked on that to be a smartass while enjoying my Jack and Coke...
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i tell to her at the start at the relationship and she agree she likes the gloves too
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
Normally I would say that it is better to wait until the relationship is stable and you are sure that your partner is open-minded and appreciative.
In my case my wife knew about my fetish even before we met the first time
Since our relationship began as bulletin board discussion about relationships (ha!) we wrote each other about our thoughts, needs and other related things long before our first physical encounter. So she knew about my fetish before she even saw me. Since se seemed very appreciative, I bought on a business trip to the US two pairs of long satin gloves and a golden bracelet (at these time it was not easy in Germany to get these in normal stores, but in the US nearly each bigger mall had one or two stores where you could buy them).
And what should I say? At our first encounter I gave her the gloves and the bracelet as a present and two hours later I was in heaven
But on the downside: As I wrote already in my introduction, I exaggerated the glove thing a little bit and thought that she will be wearing the gloves all the time when we have sex. Soon the pendulum swung back and I had to beg for the gloves. But after some discussions we found a way that is satisfying for both parties and now sometimes we have sex with and sometimes without gloves. It all depends on the mood.
What I want to say: Speak about it. Speak about YOUR needs and try to understand YOUR PARTNER's position also. Don't exaggerate, but also don't be shy. If there is a problem it has to be solved by speaking about it. To suffer from not telling your partner may bring more problems to the relationship than simply speaking about it.
In my case my wife knew about my fetish even before we met the first time
Since our relationship began as bulletin board discussion about relationships (ha!) we wrote each other about our thoughts, needs and other related things long before our first physical encounter. So she knew about my fetish before she even saw me. Since se seemed very appreciative, I bought on a business trip to the US two pairs of long satin gloves and a golden bracelet (at these time it was not easy in Germany to get these in normal stores, but in the US nearly each bigger mall had one or two stores where you could buy them).
And what should I say? At our first encounter I gave her the gloves and the bracelet as a present and two hours later I was in heaven
But on the downside: As I wrote already in my introduction, I exaggerated the glove thing a little bit and thought that she will be wearing the gloves all the time when we have sex. Soon the pendulum swung back and I had to beg for the gloves. But after some discussions we found a way that is satisfying for both parties and now sometimes we have sex with and sometimes without gloves. It all depends on the mood.
What I want to say: Speak about it. Speak about YOUR needs and try to understand YOUR PARTNER's position also. Don't exaggerate, but also don't be shy. If there is a problem it has to be solved by speaking about it. To suffer from not telling your partner may bring more problems to the relationship than simply speaking about it.