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Re: Look for advice
Hi,
What gloves do you wish for her to wear for you? Is it leather, latex, household, or satin gloves?
Can I ask how long you have been together?
What gloves do you wish for her to wear for you? Is it leather, latex, household, or satin gloves?
Can I ask how long you have been together?
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Re: Look for advice
First point, how old are you two?Srt19 wrote:Anyone got any advice for me how to approach my partner about wearing gloves
Secondly, what have you done in the bedroom previously and how much have you talked about fetishes and whatnot.
My approach is that i always want my partner to feel comfortable in the situation but at the same time feel a little daring in what they do, especially if it comes to new experiences. Each person is different so they can be totally restrictive and against anything "weird" and be varying degrees until it becomes "open to any and all".
Not everyone is going to be comfortable right away with fetish related things and simply find it weird if its not something they've either thought about or done before. You can ease them into the idea of doing it or trying small steps.
I don't know what your plans are but if you are determined then take baby steps. IF they are truly are a life partner then they will accept these quirks and oddities because at the end of the day its alla bout keeping your partner happy and sometimes compromises are made.
I dont want to make it sound like an obligation if you or your partner are uncomfortable with it, and some things may be out of the question for the other party entirely, the point is, if there is some degree of comfortability and willingness to do it, then go for it.
IF they don't want to go for it on more than one occasion or discussion then don't feel isolated about it, some things are just meant to be personal.
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Re: Look for advice
There's lots of advice for you here on the forum, have a look at these topics to see if they're of any help to you ...
The most important thing to remember is that you are not alone and there are plenty of us here who have managed it quite successfully ...
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Let us know if you need any more help ...
The most important thing to remember is that you are not alone and there are plenty of us here who have managed it quite successfully ...
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=25885&p=88480
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=6540&p=19800
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=9560&p=30291
viewtopic.php?f=43&t=16073&p=56323
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=17583&p=59390
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=22181&p=72823
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=25303&p=86036
viewtopic.php?f=43&t=239&p=455
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=3215&p=8354
viewtopic.php?f=43&t=3124
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=5215&p=14724
viewtopic.php?f=24&t=6540&p=19800
Let us know if you need any more help ...