Significant Other and Gloves

[Virus277]

For those of you in relationships, how did you get your significant other to start wearing gloves? Was there any pushback or was he or she completely okay with it knowing it made everything into a better experience for you?

[pinkrubbergloves]

I had a girlfriend years and years ago that wore rubber gloves and lingerie for me all the time. The honest way I brought it up was after we were regularly having sex for a few months. We were at the point of being completely open to each other. We were laying in bed one evening kissing and talking. I then got the courage to bring it up. I started by saying something like " what would you say if I told you there was something you could wear that would make me hard like viagra?"

She was very schocked but completely interested. "What is it?" She said

I replied " Its not really something that the "norm" would say is sexy... its like a fetish and it just turns me on so much but I am very shy and haven't told anyone about it"

That got her even more interested. "Tell me...."

Then I basically started to freeze up with fright thinking she would reject me. I couldn't actually say the words "rubber gloves" I basically started to describe then rather then say it. "Something that you wear to wash dishes"

"An apron!?" She blurted out. At this point I could feel her excitement about it and she wasn't judgeing me at all she just really wanted to get me hard to fuck her hard... lol

"No not an apron..."

"Ahhh rubber gloves....?" She said

I nodded yes. She jumped out of bed and ran out of the room. I was numb...

Then to my delight she came back in hold a a pair of yellow rubber gloves (a bit baggy) but still....

She could see I was in awe. She started to put them on and said "my mom just bought these for me the other day"

Instant hardon for me that she could see

What happened next is obvious.

So I guess if you are sexually comfortable with each other it should not be an issues. She really just wanted to turn me on anyway possible and a gloves are not something all that extreme like say scat or or indepth roleplay or something.

Hope this helps some what.

[paglovelover]

My wife used to wear them more often for me (privately) because she knew I have a fetish for them. At the start of the relationship and after noticing we were compatible, I did share that I had these fetishes, more so to find out if there was a deal breaker lurking. Granted, she did not Jump for Joy, but also was not appalled by them. They just are not things she is into. These days however I am afraid the only opportunities arise these days are while we are on vacation and getting ready for a Formal Dinner. I pack a couple pair of gloves and she will glide them on for a quick photo or two (like the one used for my profile here)

[weasel2000]

I had dated my wife for about 2 month, we started getting intimate and I had mentioned off-hand (seemingly any ways) that I enjoyed the picture of her from her prom...where she had been wearing a pair of elbow length white satin gloves. I had mentioned that I like stuff like that, smooth silky material and she mentioned that she still had them. So I gave her a big kiss and a lot of attention to making her horny and she decided to put them on to see my reaction...they felt GREAT! She caressed me with them and then gave me a great hand-job...which I reciprocated by bring her off a couple of times to show my appreciation. So afterwards, I explained my fetish for satin gloves to her, and that I also enjoyed latex gloves...she was definitely intrigued. I have caressed her with latex gloves and she finds that she likes the feel...she wears the satin because she knows it turns me on...and that I will make sure she knows how much I appreciate her. That's the main thing...its not a one-way street. Make sure that your girlfriend/partner knows it's not just the item but HER/HIM wearing it that makes you horny...and that you reciprocate by showing them how much you appreciate and love them. My wife knows my fetishes, she knows what turns me on and I know what buttons to push to get her to have some spectacular orgasms.

[ltd7201]

I told my wife about my fetish for satin gloves shortly before we got married. She thought about adding gloves to her wedding dress to surprise me (it was the mid 1990's and gloves were very popular with wedding attire back them), but she felt the style of her dress wouldn't work.

For many years, gloves were part of her bedroom wear. After several years, she agreed to wear gloves a couple of times to costume parties dressed as a flapper. Finally, this last year, we attended two formal events where she wore opera length gloves with her gown - one time with white, the other with black. One of the events was a masquerade theme, so there were several women wearing gloves. The other was a big event with a couple hundred people and she was one of only a few women wearing gloves, so she did get a bit self-conscious about it, but after a few drinks, she didn't care and danced the night away gloved.

She's been wonderful with indulging me and I am so glad I shared it with her. I've told and showed her many, many times how much I appreciate it!

[weasel2000]

Over New Years we were invited to a fancy dress party, my wife surprised me by wearing red satin opera gloves to go with her red strapless dress. She looked stunning and was a head turner at the party we went to. During the party she took the gloves off; but walking to the car afterwards she put the gloves back on and holding hands with her was intoxicating. In the car she reached over and proceeded to caress my hands, leg and crotch while I was driving home...she unzipped me and ran her fingers inside my pants. Needless to say when we got home we rang in the new year...hard...and long...with her keeping her gloves on... (I proceeded to wear my own opera length red satin gloves...)

[glovesnap20]

The few partners with whom I've shared my fetish have been happy enough to oblige.

A girlfriend in college was the first girl who I told about my fetish. Eventually she was willing to try a pair on during sex, but things were a bit up and down and we split up for unrelated reasons.

I was recently in a long-term relationship with a woman who was happy to indulge my fetish. I told her about it early on in the relationship, just as we had become comfortable having sex with one another, because I decided that I wanted to weed out anyone for whom the fetish was a deal breaker. To my delight, she was really happy to do something that made me happy and for the duration of our relationship would usually snap a pair on unprompted during sex. As others have said, this was a two-way street. I was always interested in knowing about and fulfilling her fantasies as best I could.

I think most partners will be receptive as long as you're not pushy and express your appreciation. The way I see it now, it makes sex even more intimate by letting yourself be vulnerable in opening up.