New glove fetishist in the community
Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:46 pm
Hi everybody,
I don't remember when I discovered this forum for the first time, but I have been visiting it many times and I made an account but never had to do my coming out.
Glove fetishism has always been my deepest secret and I learned to open about it and hope to be more comfortable here.
So I was actually living in Germany and just moved few months ago to japan. I am a male in my 30s.
Unlike many fetishists here, I am not interested in latex and rubber gloves. What attracts me is basically vintage gloves from satin, silk, velvet, suede, leather to other types of winter gloves.
The most tight the material of the glove is, the more I can't leave my eyes. I like especially opera gloves, they are so sensual and make a woman so feminine. I am also attracted to other fetishes like tights and pantyhoses, boots, fur and lingerie and I love bondage especially when it is combined with these fetishes.
I can't remember when my fetish arised but I do have some flash memories of moments when I was very young. May be the person who unintentionally developed this fetish in me is my cousine. She is much older than me but I spent a lot of time with her and in winter she always had gloves with her. She wears only cotton or wool gloves but cute ones. I remember she had a pair that reached the elbow. Sometimes when we go out she lend me one of her pairs when it is very cold. I guess it started from that period.
So I started getting fixed to women with gloves and finding any occasion to try a pair of gloves... My aunt had also a nice collection of suede and leather gloves that I enjoy trying secretly when I visit her.
So I had this fetish for years but I never showed it or talked about it with anyone. I lived in an era before internet, and I thought I was the only weird person that has these sensations. I secretly search for glove pictures on models in fashion magazines and I get excited for TV scenes with gloved women... Sometimes I imagine and draw models by hand.
Then after discovering internet, I started googling pictures of gloves (and also bondage stuff). I didn't know the terminology but I started discovering a new culture and finding other "weird" people like me... It calmed me when I knew that my sensations are shared all around the world but still I didn't want to express them and I kept my secret for my self for years.
There is only one person with whom I shared my experience. It was my ex-girlfriend. Unfotunately we broke up but it was my first serious intimate relashionship. We shared a lot together and at some point I opened to her about my fetishes. She was suprised at the beginning and didn't understand this strange sensation. She had no experience with fetishism, she didnt even know the word. But with time she learned ro share with me and not really become a fetishist but liked the idea that those things excited me. I had a secret collection of gloves that I shared with her and she started wearing satin or velvet opera gloves when we have sex( I also introduced her to some soft bondage but she didnt like that much). It was a great experience but we broke up for other reasons we didnt agree about in life.
But I can say that this experience helped to open up more about my fetishes and learn to talk about them.
I don't remember when I discovered this forum for the first time, but I have been visiting it many times and I made an account but never had to do my coming out.
Glove fetishism has always been my deepest secret and I learned to open about it and hope to be more comfortable here.
So I was actually living in Germany and just moved few months ago to japan. I am a male in my 30s.
Unlike many fetishists here, I am not interested in latex and rubber gloves. What attracts me is basically vintage gloves from satin, silk, velvet, suede, leather to other types of winter gloves.
The most tight the material of the glove is, the more I can't leave my eyes. I like especially opera gloves, they are so sensual and make a woman so feminine. I am also attracted to other fetishes like tights and pantyhoses, boots, fur and lingerie and I love bondage especially when it is combined with these fetishes.
I can't remember when my fetish arised but I do have some flash memories of moments when I was very young. May be the person who unintentionally developed this fetish in me is my cousine. She is much older than me but I spent a lot of time with her and in winter she always had gloves with her. She wears only cotton or wool gloves but cute ones. I remember she had a pair that reached the elbow. Sometimes when we go out she lend me one of her pairs when it is very cold. I guess it started from that period.
So I started getting fixed to women with gloves and finding any occasion to try a pair of gloves... My aunt had also a nice collection of suede and leather gloves that I enjoy trying secretly when I visit her.
So I had this fetish for years but I never showed it or talked about it with anyone. I lived in an era before internet, and I thought I was the only weird person that has these sensations. I secretly search for glove pictures on models in fashion magazines and I get excited for TV scenes with gloved women... Sometimes I imagine and draw models by hand.
Then after discovering internet, I started googling pictures of gloves (and also bondage stuff). I didn't know the terminology but I started discovering a new culture and finding other "weird" people like me... It calmed me when I knew that my sensations are shared all around the world but still I didn't want to express them and I kept my secret for my self for years.
There is only one person with whom I shared my experience. It was my ex-girlfriend. Unfotunately we broke up but it was my first serious intimate relashionship. We shared a lot together and at some point I opened to her about my fetishes. She was suprised at the beginning and didn't understand this strange sensation. She had no experience with fetishism, she didnt even know the word. But with time she learned ro share with me and not really become a fetishist but liked the idea that those things excited me. I had a secret collection of gloves that I shared with her and she started wearing satin or velvet opera gloves when we have sex( I also introduced her to some soft bondage but she didnt like that much). It was a great experience but we broke up for other reasons we didnt agree about in life.
But I can say that this experience helped to open up more about my fetishes and learn to talk about them.