How do you bring up the glove fetish?
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
I suppose I should vote for the 'I don't tell them' option seeing as I'd been married 7 years and we'd been together for 13 before I 'came out'. He hadn't guessed- not sure if I was pleased or relieved frankly!
Either way he was cool about it so perhaps I ought to have fessed up years beforehand and saved myself some of the worry about 'just what the hell will he think....' that held me back from mentioning it for so long.
Either way he was cool about it so perhaps I ought to have fessed up years beforehand and saved myself some of the worry about 'just what the hell will he think....' that held me back from mentioning it for so long.
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
It's quite sad (for us at least) that your husband doesn't know how lucky he is. What most of us wouldn't give to be with a woman like you.mrs uni wrote:I suppose I should vote for the 'I don't tell them' option seeing as I'd been married 7 years and we'd been together for 13 before I 'came out'. He hadn't guessed- not sure if I was pleased or relieved frankly!
Either way he was cool about it so perhaps I ought to have fessed up years beforehand and saved myself some of the worry about 'just what the hell will he think....' that held me back from mentioning it for so long.
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I often say that if your partner really loves you, he / she will at least tolerate the glove fetish. The worst reaction I ever got was my last girlfriend, and she turned out to be a complete whackjob, not to mention that the stuff she was into was even more insane!
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Well now, you've piqued my interest! What was she into then?Someguy wrote: and she turned out to be a complete whackjob, not to mention that the stuff she was into was even more insane!
Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
Me and my girlfriend are now together almost a year. She's my second girlfriend. I had a 4 month relation with my first girlfriend and never brought it up.
With my current girlfriend I brought it up after a week; We were sitting on the couch and I simply said: "Sweety I wanna tell you something. You know that everyone has something they love you. A fetish like doing it with 2 women, or bondage or certain clothing."
She was like: Yeah of course!
So I said that I have a fetish too: "It may sound strange but I get turned on by rubber household gloves. I love the feeling and think they look really sexy on a woman."
She was totally ok with it and simply said: "Thats cool, we all have our 'thing', Its ok!"
I was relieved of course, and I asked if she would wear them for me during playtime. She does it for me and we often both wear them now when we have sex. She is starting to like them to. She only gets annoyed by the sweaty hands she gets from them!
With my current girlfriend I brought it up after a week; We were sitting on the couch and I simply said: "Sweety I wanna tell you something. You know that everyone has something they love you. A fetish like doing it with 2 women, or bondage or certain clothing."
She was like: Yeah of course!
So I said that I have a fetish too: "It may sound strange but I get turned on by rubber household gloves. I love the feeling and think they look really sexy on a woman."
She was totally ok with it and simply said: "Thats cool, we all have our 'thing', Its ok!"
I was relieved of course, and I asked if she would wear them for me during playtime. She does it for me and we often both wear them now when we have sex. She is starting to like them to. She only gets annoyed by the sweaty hands she gets from them!
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
thats a good start and a very honest and correct way to bring it up
nothing beats the truth
women hates being manipulated,but it seems they dont mind manipulating us men :P
nothing beats the truth
women hates being manipulated,but it seems they dont mind manipulating us men :P
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
I told my Gf after 6 month. She said it`s ok but she doesen`t really share my fetish. Sometimes she wears gloves for me.
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
Me getting her pregnant, among other things.Rommeltje wrote:Well now, you've piqued my interest! What was she into then?Someguy wrote: and she turned out to be a complete whackjob, not to mention that the stuff she was into was even more insane!
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Re: How do you bring up the glove fetish?
I did not reveal my fetish until we were several months into the relationship (now wife) and as mentioned above, I did first see how open-minded she was.
I can remember one date where one woman out of the blue mentioned she was creeped out by guys with a foot fetish (cant remember how it came up too). Thus, I knew that one would only remain a friendship.
At first, I do like to drop 'hints' just to see if something arises. However most times it did not. There was only one time where a casual conversation ended up with me going crazy because it transitioned into a more 'fetish-oriented' conversation. I'll post more details of that in a separate thread.
I can remember one date where one woman out of the blue mentioned she was creeped out by guys with a foot fetish (cant remember how it came up too). Thus, I knew that one would only remain a friendship.
At first, I do like to drop 'hints' just to see if something arises. However most times it did not. There was only one time where a casual conversation ended up with me going crazy because it transitioned into a more 'fetish-oriented' conversation. I'll post more details of that in a separate thread.