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a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Mon May 13, 2019 1:47 am
by BlueFatCat123
I was in a cafe alone today. A really chatty and attractive middle aged woman who worked there came over and asked me how I was doing because I was sitting by myself. She was wearing a pair of yellow marigolds and a pinstripe apron and was walking past to go get some plates off a table behind me. When she approached she placed her gloved fingertips on the side of the table and asked me if I was meeting anybody. I said yes when I wasn't because I didn't want to look weird sitting in a cafe on my own. I also asked her how her day was going. She said pretty good, I said that I was meeting a girl at the cafe (so I'd have a reason to wait around). I glimpsed down at those golden marigolds only once because I didn't want to look weird. God, I wish I'd have been able to stare at them all day. I could see water on the gloves and they fit her hands so snug. I wish I had photographic memory lol

I stayed in the cafe quite a bit. I didn't have a real reason to stay, I just liked the view. The woman thought I got stood up on my date and came over and spoke to me for like half an hour still wearing the gloves. She was so attractive and confident and looked stunning in those damn gloves. I jokingly tested the water and asked her if she'd be up for a date instead, but she told me she was married. The rejection didn't feel good tbh, but i didn't act too bothered because her response was she was married not that she didn't like me. I just said oh I didn't see a ring because of the marigolds and kind of laughed it off. Oh I also said too bad all the best girls always are and it made her smile and blush which I've never done before. I have never in my years of life ever made a middle aged woman blush! I hope I made her day so she remembers me! :p

Anyway I waited around 10 more minutes and then I decided to leave so I didn't creep her out too much because I kept looking at her gloves whilst she was working. Sure I didn't do it in an obvious way, but I just didn't want to make her associate me as creepy or anything. As I left she came up to the counter and said sorry about my date and she genuinely looked sad lol. She got all upset and said I'm a really polite young man and she can't believe somebody would stand me up. I said something like this is the 3rd time and she said she'd give me a hug if she could, but kinda presented her gloves and said she didn't want to get me wet because she was washing the dishes. I honestly wanted it, but there was no way of asking for the hug without seeming like a weirdo. It was one of those things you just had to accept. She was so nice and friendly towards me though. I really hope she remembers me if I go back there. I know she's married and stuff, but it'd be nice to make some older friends because right now all my friends are my age and they all just kind of bore me to death. We had some really good chemistry surprisingly, but if we ever become friends is entirely up to her. The ball is in her court in that regard. I still don't know her name yet and I beat myself up after I left for not asking. I'm a bit of an idiot lmao.

I will probably go back to that cafe again. Not sure when though. I don't want it to be too soon or she'd think I was weird, but I don't want to leave it too late or she'll forget I exist. I'm pretty shy with strangers usually and it's a nice change that a woman actually approached me first to talk. I can only imagine though she's probably like that with everyone. I guess next time I go it'll help me see if she talks to other people as much as she talks to me.

ANYWAYS. She was so amazing! I've got the worst crush ever. I haven't had a crush like this since my college days. I'm such a shy guy usually, I'm proud of myself for actually managing to keep a conversation interesting with her for as long as I did. Her being attractive, confident and friendly helped a lot with that though. Oh and the gloves too ofc. :$

Re: a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Mon May 13, 2019 9:44 am
by marigoldmilfs
Nice story cafes are a great place to see women in rubber gloves, I use to go to the tesco a few years ago about twice a year. The lady’s in there always were donning the marigolds.

Re: a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Mon May 13, 2019 10:44 pm
by Rommeltje
If you need an excuse to be sitting in a cafe alone, just take a book or a newspaper. Then if you go back to that particular one next time, and she's there, say something like "no date this time, I just like it here". From then on, you can just make it your regular spot for a drink and a read, and if she realizes you're going to be a regular customer, you'll be able to strike up conversations with her anytime.

At least, I think that could work. :hmm:

Re: a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Wed May 15, 2019 8:47 am
by wmowrg
Sounds like my idea of heaven ... I'd give it a week or so and go back ... Use Romm's excuse of liking it there and see how you ... Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained ... :-v

Re: a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Sat May 18, 2019 12:28 am
by BlueFatCat123
Hi, you guys are right. I'll be going back again soon (probably the following Monday). We actually had a decent amount in common and hey being a regular customer sounds pretty nice imo. I loved talking to her, she told me she's really into her gardening and that was great because so am I. Gave us an interest in common to talk about. It made me wonder if she gardens in marigolds too? I guess I'll never know though lol. :$

I'm so glad I found this community. If I hadn't of I'd have nowhere to talk about this. I've gone to a lot of cafes in my spare time. I do usually see women in household gloves when I go to them, but never have they once came over to talk to me! When she did I honestly couldn't believe my luck. I think me telling her I was meeting somebody helped a lot with the situation, because when she noticed my "date" didn't showed up it made her feel sorry for me and want to come over to talk more. That kind of created a bridge for us to chat, because I'm so shy I'd of never struck up conversation with her own my own without her coming to me. It turned out we had some stuff in common like both of us have an interest in gardening which made our chat so much easier. I always find it hard approaching people, especially attractive older women. Curse of being shy, young and only attracted to people 20 years older than myself!

I'll keep you posted on how the next visit goes. Hopefully she remembers me. It's funny I kind of feel nervous about going again, even though when I was there I felt like I was in heaven. :p

Re: a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 6:09 pm
by BlueFatCat123
UPDATE:
I visited the cafe again on saturday. I saw that lady and we spoke a bit more. I asked her name and she said her names Amanda. This time she wasn't cleaning tables or getting dishes she was serving food and drinks though. She wasn't wearing those yellow marigolds sadly. She asked me if I was on another date and I just said no, just dropping in for a drink and slice of cake. We had a really great chat. I did notice she talks with other people too so it's not just me, she's like that with everyone. She was so confident and attractive. I'm so shy and young, I dream of having a chance with a woman like that.

She was not wearing gloves, but we talked some more at least. A lot less than we did the first time, but it was nice speaking to her again. I told her about what I studied in college and that I'm a student there even though I graduated already. I guess I just wanted to make my life seem interesting to her because right now I haven't got a job and wanted to say something other than "im unemployed" lol.

I did not get to see her wearing those same yellow marigolds sadly. It's a shame because there was a younger girl who also works there and she was wearing the gloves this time. The younger woman was getting the plates and stuff, but I didn't fancy her because of her age. Amanda did introduce us and told me her name, but I can't even remember it now lmao.

Re: a Middle Aged Woman in Marigolds!

Posted: Tue May 28, 2019 12:41 am
by wmowrg
Sounds like a reason to keep visiting ... Mandy in Marigolds is more than enough reason for me ... :hmm: :up: