The Damage of Glove Fetish Comments on Youtube Content Creators

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Re: The Damage of Glove Fetish Comments on Youtube Content Creators

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I'll agree there are some who started doing ASMR and gained traction when a specific community perked up and gave their channel traction (e.g. glove fetish community), then that creator capitalised on it... if that's what they want to do, then go for it. My issue is when it's unsolicited; when the creator has no intention of appealing or inciting the comments that they get. It's like if someone was doing a tutorial on how to bake bread and then someone commented "Please do another one but this time you're naked and the camera is pointed at your feet". It's quite obviously not what their channel is about, so it's just not right to post.

Specifically about Ginger ASMR as 3clipse mentioned above, I'm disappointed with how a promising channel - which has now amassed over 100k subs - has changed the target audience to pervy men and women who get off on watching her flashing her arse and tits every day while barely getting past the suggestive/inappropriate content filter on YouTube... but if that's what she wants to do then all well and good, and she is consenting to and inviting a reciprocation of lewd comments from her viewers. She just won't have me as a subscriber any more because I'm not on YT looking for someone doing soft-core porn.
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Elegant Jellyfish is a health care worker so probably too busy or worn out.
3clipse wrote: Sun Aug 30, 2020 8:06 am
Three examples of ASMRtists reactions to this glove situation I have noticed are

1) https://www.youtube.com/c/ElegantJellyfish/videos
Of the 22 videos before her fabled fetish gloves one, 10 of them had surgical gloves in them. After that it got a bit more sporadic and I did notice that she had exposed some of the lewd-er(?) comments that she had gotten on other social media kind of as a warning. She did seem to take a break from using them but near the end of her time on yt (she hasn't posted in about 4 months) she brought them back twice more (not including nitrile gloves) before starting an Onlyfans for that kind of stuff since Patreon was too prudish. She hasn't posted much on there either though with it having been started earlier this year and only having 2 videos compared to a bunch of photos. This is what seems to be the retreat (too strong a word?) scenario from the OP.

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3) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxjuQn ... S2rzuKwNSw (Adorable ASMR)
Not so much an end here but, she has shown up a few times on this forum as of late (and I'm glad bc I think in addition to being very pretty she does good work) and of her video library 2/3rds of her content is glove related. Why? Because her non-glove videos (kind of unfortunately) have next to no views. I say kind of because her glove content is really good and I want to keep seeing it but it always does kind of suck to myself have the fear that someone may potentially feel pigeonholed and then stop for any number of the reasons above. From her videos it doesn't look like she feels like that but I'm not her so who knows. Maybe it's just for the hustle, or maybe she just likes it? I feel kind of selfish thinking like this since it's not really a paid anything that is owed to be to anything but if a request can be thrown out politely and not spammed over and over (which may be the main problem) then I don't see the harm.
***To be fair there's a comment on one of the more recent videos asking for some of the gloves she used to be mailed to a person's full address, which to me kind of constitutes flying off of the edge of weird the beginning of this thread was talking about. At least to me it does.
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Yes, there has been a huge overlap and grey zone between vanilla ASMR and lewd stuff but that zone of course is not the YT platform.

Monk wrote: Sat Aug 29, 2020 7:06 pm
katertjekat wrote: Sat Aug 29, 2020 6:33 pm Still, some WWGFA forum members don't seem to understand...

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There’s a huge difference between asking a fetishy question to members on a fetish forum, and making a fetishy comment on YouTube. You’d have thought only a moron wouldn’t understand that, so hopefully you can see the difference...

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Also the commenters being spoken off are really repetitve, specific and demanding. Not just doing a suggestion here and there.
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about Adorable ASMR:

she uses playtex gloves and mr clean ultra grip gloves, so I asked her for a custom video offering her $ 50. she was interested, but she replied to my emails in a slow and unconvinced way, in the end she didn't hear more 🤷🏻‍♂️ first time this happens to me. I do not understand her.

about Ginger you are right ... she initially used the fetish gloves to make views, then she deleted all the videos with the playtex gloves and turned to porn. I'll never understand it.
I asked her why, she replied that YouTube had demonetized them and would upload them to patreon. after 4 months I asked her when she would upload the videos with the playtex gloves on patreon and she never replied. She doesn't want to talk about playtex gloves anymore.
she prefers putting a dildo in her mouth and simulating a blowjob .... absurd !!!

starling ASMR also started her career with many medical videos and fetish gloves then stopped when she started having 15,000 fans
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soier wrote: Sun Aug 30, 2020 11:18 pm about Adorable ASMR:

asked her why, she replied that YouTube had demonetized them and would upload them to patreon. after 4 months I asked her when she would upload the videos with the playtex gloves on patreon and she never replied.
The demonetization problem on Youtube is a legit concern for content creators. This article doesn't mention ASMRtists, but it does explain why so many Youtubers are upset about changes going on:

https://learn.g2.com/youtube-demonetization

What's interesting to me is that, after a long trend towards social media as the primary way of communicating with fans, we seem to be slowly shifting back to the membership-based content model that was popular twenty years ago.
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This is what Ginger Asmr done after deleting her glove videos ..

https://www.pornflix.to/v/18359/ginger- ... ans-video/
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I don't really want to argue about the value of ASMR videos (although I do think that if there's an audience, it has value, otherwise, what's the value of this forum?), and whether or not we should feel sorry for ASMRtists for attracting this sort of attention.

What I do care about is how comments like that reflect on us as a community. Fetishists are already regarded by society as weird and creepy. The vast majority of us isn't, but the few who are are also the ones exposing themselves to the rest of the world, making it look like that's indeed what all fetishists are like. That's why I think it's a good thing to actively oppose that kind of behaviour (and why I wrote replies under both TipTap's and Vik's videos).

Of course there's nothing wrong with making requests to people who offer custom videos. And of course it's fine to comment on the gloves in a normal way. Just know how far you can go. And, very importantly: when making a request, be transparent about why you want to see them in gloves. Which is, however you look at it, because you have a glove fetish. Realize that if someone makes a video for you because they think you like the ASMR-sound of gloves, and it turns out you just like seeing them in gloves, that's creepy. (Note: I'm not accusing anyone of doing the latter, but I can imagine that does happen.)

Also, if one of them was happy to make glove videos as long as it gave them more views or money, and they suddenly don't want to make them anymore (or indeed, if they decide to switch to porn), that's their choice. There's a lot of valid reasons for that decision. Maybe they started to get the wrong kind of attention, which made them not want to do it anymore. That doesn't mean you did anything wrong, just that the people who don't know their boundaries ruined it for you too, not that you're such a person.

Let's assume that everyone on this forum knows the right way to approach people about gloves, and the 'bad apples' are people who haven't registered here (yet). Maybe then we can stop throwing accusations at each other and feeling personally attacked by this discussion.
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Rommeltje wrote: Mon Aug 31, 2020 12:47 pm videos).

Of course there's nothing wrong with making requests to people who offer custom videos. And of course it's fine to comment on the gloves in a normal way. Just know how far you can go. And, very importantly: when making a request, be transparent about why you want to see them in gloves. Which is, however you look at it, because you have a glove fetish. Realize that if someone makes a video for you because they think you like the ASMR-sound of gloves, and it turns out you just like seeing them in gloves, that's creepy. (Note: I'm not accusing anyone of doing the latter, but I can imagine that does happen.)
When Adorable ASMR upload the video with the orange ultra grip rubber gloves she text the title something like “best tingles and VISUALS”.
She already know we love to see her with that gloves, and I know this evening she upload another video with the orange gloves...


about VIK ... with all the sympathy and goodness I want to VIK ... this conversation seems exaggerated because of her.. she started making fetish videos aware that the audience was only watching them and fetish because she was desperate from the few views of the old videos .... she was never convinced ... then she changed her mind again. it is absolutely not our fault.

I do not agree that an artist turns to porn because she is tired of the glove fetish ... in short .. we are much healthier than porn.
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then honestly the thing that I find most incomprehensible and absurd and also very offensive is why Ginger besides giving to porn .. carefully avoids any talk about her videos with gloves ... without giving even explanations ... as if we were more perverts than those who watch porn !!!! absurd!
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soier wrote:When Adorable ASMR upload the video with the orange ultra grip rubber gloves she text the title something like “best tingles and VISUALS”.
She already know we love to see her with that gloves, and I know this evening she upload another video with the orange gloves...
Like I said, I wasn't accusing anyone, and I wasn't talking about any particular case.
soier wrote:about VIK (...) changed her mind again. it is absolutely not our fault.
Again, no one is saying it's (y)our fault, and it isn't about this particular case.
soier wrote:I do not agree that an artist turns to porn because she is tired of the glove fetish ... in short .. we are much healthier than porn.
then honestly the thing that I find most incomprehensible and absurd and also very offensive is why Ginger besides giving to porn .. carefully avoids any talk about her videos with gloves ... without giving even explanations ... as if we were more perverts than those who watch porn !!!! absurd!
She doesn't owe you an explanation. She decided she wanted to do porn and to not do gloves anymore. End of story.
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